Teresa Martin
Klaiber Feb. 2020
Everyone
begins their genealogy journey with a simple lined chart. My journey started, as a child, when mother
shared my baby book. The very first page was the chart, which she had filled
out, showing three generations. By the
time I was married my chart was a bit longer, filled with names and dates. Those blank lines can be addicting, like
adding puzzle pieces, but something is still missing; the heart of the people,
their story.
Blogs,
in today’s world, give me a chance to write the stories I learned along my
genealogical journey. After all we are a
combination of who came before us. We are honoring their memory. We should celebrate their accomplishments and
learn from their errors.
As
I write, today, it is drizzling, similar to the day I visited Hannah Collins
Clayton. We were driving from someplace
to someplace when I realized it would be just a short side trip to Smith
Cemetery in Wesley Township, Washington County, Ohio. Hubby nodded and I swear I heard a groan and
felt rolling eyes from the backseat gallery of sons, who were forced to visit
many cemeteries as they grew up.
The
cold granite stone stood tall among many, honoring Hannah and husband Alexander
Clayton. The symbolic drapery is said to
be the veil between life and death graces their stone adding elegant dignity. As I stood in the drizzle, I thought about
how they had laughed, made mistakes, lived lives with all its up’s and down’s. I promised to learn more about Hannah’s
story.
Hannah
has not been a common given name in our direct family. Hannah which means favour or grace. Recently another Hannah graced us with our
fifth grandbaby which drew me back to my 3rd great grandmother. Hannah born 6 August 1802 in Mifflin County,
Pennsylvania who died 17 June 1883 in Bartlett, Wesley township, Washington
County, Ohio.
Hannah
Collins married Alexander Clayton (s/o John Calvin Clayton). They both grew up
in Perry County, Ohio, attending Unity Presbyterian Church. I located their marriage 3 May 1832.[i]
I was a bit surprised to realize she did
not marry until she was 29 years old.
Hannah’s
father died either shortly before their marriage or immediately following.[ii],
She appears with her married name on partition records for Benjamin Collins, just
four months after her marriage to Alexander.
Maybe she had been his caregiver?
Through
the wonderful network of genealogists, a letter copied by B. F. Carroll,
surfaced and was shared which sheds some light about Hannah W. Collin’s as both
a caregiver and her late marriage to Alexander Clayton.
"Respected Friends: - I embrace the present opportunity of informing you that I am in a reasonable state of health at the present, for which I have reason to be thankful. It is a long time since I have heard anything from you or any of our friends in that part of the country and I know but little of the situation of my friends and therefore have but little to write.
My brother and sisters are or have been all married and left me alone with my father and mother, who are now old and frail. Sister Jane is a widow with five sons who live with her and manage the farm. James has three living and two dead. Sally has three living and three dead. Polly had three living and one dead. Remember me to my friends in that county. especially to your son Hugh as I can remember more about him than any of the rest. I wish you would write to us and let us know how you are coming on and our friends generally in that country, and invite Stephen George if you have an opportunity to write us.
No more at present
Your affectionate friend
[signed] Hannah W. Collins
As I continue to write the drizzle has now turned to rain and the story is not the one I had hoped to write. Hannah has seen much grief with the death of six nephews and nieces and a brother-in-law, along with being left as care giver for her failing parents.
With Hannah’s information, even though the letter was undated, knowing that Jane’s husband, Thomas Beard died circa 1826 we can surmise the approximate time Hannah sat down to write. Benjamin Collins, Hannah’s father, does not appear on the 1830 census and it is believed he died about 1829-30. Thus, the letter was written between 1826 and 1829/30.
The records of Unity Presbyterian Church state Hannah’s mother, Mary Collins, was deceased by 1 April 1835. She is believed to be the elderly female listed in David Carroll’s household in 1830. David Carroll had married Hannah’s sister Elizabeth. Another sister had married Thomas Carroll. Thus, if Hannah acted as a caregiver, by 1830, she had some relief and help.
Meanwhile,
Alexander Clayton had purchased 60 acres of land in adjoining Morgan County in
1825 from Moses Goodin,(s/o Moses Goodin, who had married Alexander’s
grandmother Mary, after the death of grandfather Thomas Clayton). About the
same time, Alexander’s father sold Moses Goodin land in Clayton township.
Alexander lost money when he sold the property in Deerfield Township, Morgan
County, two years later. Within three
months, January 1828 he partnered with John Huston for a town lot in New
Lexington. He sold his undivided half
the next year for $400.00 to Joseph R. Thomas of Putnam, Muskingum County, Ohio.[iv] He now was doing better and had enough to
support Hannah who he married in May 1832.
After
their marriage Hannah became pregnant, already 33 years old, and had her first
child, Elizabeth 5 June 1835 in Perry County. Shortly after, the Clayton’s packed up and
moved to Washington County, Ohio.
They
already had family residing in Washington County. Alexander’s great uncle Joseph Clayton had
died 7 May 1829 and was buried in Smith Cemetery, Wesley Township. Alexander’s great aunt by marriage would be
laid to rest in Smith Cemetery when she died in May 1840.
Alexander
and Hannah Collins Clayton resided near Plymouth and Bartlett in Wesley
Township where she, as his wife, signed several deed transactions as Hannah W.
Clayton. Alexander farmed, she kept
house and gave birth to three more children, all sons: David Elzy Clayton 17
Jul 1837, James Allen Clayton 4 Feb 1840 and Isaac Calvin Clayton 17 April
1843. Hannah was 41 years old when baby
Isaac was born, dubbing him a “late in life” child.
Could
Hannah Collins Clayton be gripped with yet more death and sadness? Yes.
Her brother James Collins died 7 January 1849 in Logan County, Ohio,
just 55 years old. Sister Jane Collins
Beard would follow him to the grave 20 July 1850, in Perry County.
Where
does a woman find strength, except in God, when it storms around her? The cloak
of death would again touch Hannah. This
time with more heartbreak. Daughter, Elizabeth died at the age of 18[v]
and was also laid to rest in Smith Cemetery in 1853.
I
am sure she was still mourning when news reached her that sister Mary Collins
Pugh had died in Van Buren County, Iowa 14 November 1859 followed by the shock
that sister Anne Collins Carroll had died the 28th of the same month
in New Lexington, Ohio. In fact I wonder
if she might not have known about Anne’s death before finding out about Mary.
In
her late 50’s, the Civil War would touch their lives. All three of her son’s
volunteered to serve the Union cause. David Elzy saw service in Company G of the 92nd
Regiment, Ohio Volunteer Infantry. James
Allen joined Company D of the 148th as did Isaac Calvin
Clayton. Not all was gloom. In January 1865 they celebrated the marriage
of youngest son, Isaac Calvin Clayton to Anna Jane Graham in Wesley Township.
Three months later they travelled to Morgan County 11 April 1865 for the
marriage of James Allen Clayton to Sarah J Ellis. On the road again they travelled to New
Lexington for the wedding of David Elzy Clayton to Harriett Griffith 27
February 1866.
Knowing
their sons were safe after the war she enjoyed the birth of 16 grandchildren. As
a grandmother, myself, I know it is the ultimate joy in life and it comforts me
to know Hannah found joy after facing so many deaths in her lifetime. I wonder if she thought about the footprint
she would be leaving for her descendants. Would she leave a little of the
fortitude of endurance during the sad occasions that happen in life? She would have one last death to face before
facing her own demise. Her steadfast,
providing, husband, Alexander died 12 April 1879 and was laid to rest in Smith
Cemetery. Hannah’s death would follow
four years later on 17 June 1883.
Hannah
W. Collins Clayton was the youngest of seven known children of Benjamin Collins
and wife Mary McAlister Collins. Born 6
August 1802 in Mifflin County, Pennsylvania she would also be considered a
“late in life” baby. Her father was an
Ensign in the 2nd Lost Creek
regiment of the militia in Mifflin County.[vi]
Hannah was around eight years old when
they migrated from Mifflin County to Perry County, Ohio. I hope that she enjoyed a happy, carefree
childhood, as all children should. The
Stephen George[vii]
mentioned in her letter, was a teacher, circa 1810, on Lost Creek about 1 ½
miles from McAllisterville. It is easy
to visualize him teaching Hannah her letters.
She
was the granddaughter of Hugh McAlister born in Ireland circa 1731 who settled
in Lancaster County, Pennsylvania and became a prominent pioneer in the Lost
Creek Valley of Cumberland County, now Juanita County. Hugh enlisted in the French & Indian Wars
at the age of 22. He was at Fort
Duquesne in 1755, the year after it was built.
Today we know the area as Pittsburgh.
The
next time I visit Hannah Collins Clayton, I will understand that she is at
peace among those that went before her.
That above all she honored those she loved.
A Fallen Limb
A limb has fallen from the family tree.
I keep hearing a voice that says,
“Grieve not for me.
Remember the best times,
the laughter, the song.
The good life I lived
while I was strong.
Continue my heritage,
I’m counting on you.
Keep smiling and surely
the sun will shine through.
My mind is at ease,
my soul is at rest.
Remembering all,
how I truly was blessed.
Continue traditions,
no matter how small.
Go on with your life,
don’t worry about falls.
I miss you all dearly,
so keep up your chin.
Until the day comes
we’re together again.”
– Author Unknown
I keep hearing a voice that says,
“Grieve not for me.
Remember the best times,
the laughter, the song.
The good life I lived
while I was strong.
Continue my heritage,
I’m counting on you.
Keep smiling and surely
the sun will shine through.
My mind is at ease,
my soul is at rest.
Remembering all,
how I truly was blessed.
Continue traditions,
no matter how small.
Go on with your life,
don’t worry about falls.
I miss you all dearly,
so keep up your chin.
Until the day comes
we’re together again.”
– Author Unknown
[i]
Ohio, Perry Mbk 1 p 134
[ii]
Ohio, Perry dbk E p 224
[iii]
John McAllister, John McAlister, William McAllister and Stephen George all
appear on the same p. Fermanagh twp., Mifflin County, PA 1820
[iv]
Ohio, Perry dbk D 196 & D 199
[v] 7
Jun 1853
[vi] Thomas
Lynch Montgomery, Pennsylvania Archives Sixth Series (N.p.: Department
of Public Instruction, 1907), Volume V page 400.