22 November 2023

James B. Stanley Family: Whispers from the Grave; Klaiber Cemetery, Boyd County, Kentucky

 

Compiled by Teresa Martin Klaiber


James B. Stanley was a Baptist lay minister in eastern Kentucky.  He was born 31 March 1858 in Lawrence County, Kentucky the son of James R. Stanley and wife Sarah McGuire.  He grew up in the Bolts Fork and Jacks Fork area bordering Garner, Boyd County, Kentucky where he also farmed.  He had ten siblings including Belle who married Thomas A. Gallion and 2nd John M. Jobe.

J. B. Stanley married Susan Tomlin 1 December 1878 in Boyd County, Kentucky at the home of William Rouse.  Susan was the daughter of Andrew “Andy” Tomlin who came to Kentucky from Virginia by the time she was four years old.  The Stanley family had seven children.  The last child George was born in July 1895.  In 1900 the family was living over the county line in Carter County.

A son Dwight M. Stanley, born 29 August 1884 died 14 September 1904 and was buried in Klaiber Cemetery.  A circle carved reads “In honor of our beloved son.”   Susan, his mother, died 30 September 1908 and was also laid to rest in Klaiber Cemetery.



Left with the children and George only three, James B. Stanley remarried to Eliza Kiser the widow of Joseph Cordle[i].  In 1920 J. B. and Eliza were residing n Van Lear, Johnson County, Kentucky but moved back to Boyd County some time before 1926, near Summit.  Eliza Kiser Cordle Stanley died 13 December 1926.  Her funeral was held at the Summit Baptist Church and burial was at Coalton Cemetery.

Another son, Frank (born 20 May 1887) had moved to Minden, Fayette County, West Virginia where he was a miner.  He was only forty years old when he died, just 11 months after his step mother’s death.  Frank died 23 November 1927. The death certificate states the cause as Bright’s Disease.  The document simply states burial “KY.”  The Ashland Daily Independent wrote a small article with the headline “Kilgore Main Dies in West Virginia.”  How-ever the paper misspelled Minden as Winden and states “Details regarding Stanley’s illness and death were not learned.  In the early 2020’s Minden made headlines across the nation as a hotbed of toxic land causing cancers.  At this writing it is unclear where Frank was buried.

 

The Reverend James B. Stanley lived until 25 October 1939 when he died in the hospital at Paintsville, Johnson County.  His son William Bascom Stanley, living at Van Lear, was the informant on his death certificate.  The family brought J. B. back to Klaiber Cemetery, in Boyd County, Kentucky, for burial beside his first wife Susan.

Susan and J. B.’s son Joseph “Joe” Stanley (born 3Aapril 1890) died 16 January 1940 in Floyd County, Kentucky. He collapsed inside a mine shaft and died in route to a hospital.  His wife Myrtle Prater Stanley had his body brought back to Klaiber Cemetery for burial.



Myrtle was the daughter of Charles and Elizabeth Bays Prater. Myrtle lived until 24 September 1981 and is also in our cemetery.



[i] Eliza Kizer Cordle Stanley was the daughter of Andy and Margt. Willis Kizer