12 October 2023

Jasper Newton Sexton & Miriam Lambert Sexton: Whispers from the Grave; Klaiber Cemetery, Boyd County, Kentucky

 

Compiled by Teresa Martin Klaiber


Jasper Newton Sexton was born 15 January 1869 in Boyd County, Kentucky, the son of Henry Powell Sexton and wife Julina McCormack. 

Jasper married 20 January 1898 Miriam Roberts Lambert.  She was the daughter of James Calvin Lambert and wife Marietta Davis.  Their reception was a big event on Garner and Luella Banfield carefully entered it in her day book[i].  Daughter Willa said her mother described the day of the wedding with a carpet from the road all the way to the house and butter molds in the shape of something special.  The marriage is recorded in the East Fork Methodist church records.  The marriage took place at Miriam’s father, Cal’s house on Garner.  John Childers and Thursy Davis[ii] were witness.

Jasper was a farmer all his life.  He and Miriam had ten children.  Harold Lee (b.1912) , Hopie (born 1910) and Wirt (b. 1918) were born in what today is the Klaiber Hood Cabin on our farm[iii].    Their first son Everett born in 1905 was their first child, to die and be buried in the cemetery. Everett died 17 June 1905. He was followed by Jasper II born 24 February 1916, died the same day.  Jasper was buried in Sexton Cemetery on Pigeon Roost. The next year they had another stillborn girl they named Maymie Lynd Sexton. 

The family buried son Royal Norman on the 10th of November 1921 He had gone to Sullivan County, Indiana to work in the coal mines and died from the falling of slate  in a mine accident.  He was brought back for burial in Klaiber Cemetery.

Miriam’s nickname was “Toad.” She died 17 March 1930, from pneumonia, and was laid to rest in Klaiber Cemetery.  Three months later the family buried Hopie who I wrote about in our last blog post. 

Jasper continued to live on Garner for the rest of his life.  He died 10 November 1967. His funeral service was held at East Fork United Methodist Church. 

I love the inscription on their stone “We shall never grow old or be separated Again.”



[i] Luella Banfield’s Day book is housed in the genealogy room of the Boyd County Public Library

[ii] KY Boyd mbk 16a p 47

[iii] Sexton Willa B telephone interview September 1997