01 May 2023

Benjamin Franklin Estep. Whispers from the Grave; Klaiber Cemetery, Boyd County, Kentucky

 

 

Compiled by Teresa Martin Klaiber 2023

Tucked under the mistletoe laden tree in Klaiber Cemetery is a stone simply marked “Estep.”  There are also four matching corner stones, indicating that this is a plot and may have more than one grave.  Many years ago I would walk among the stones listening to stories John Henry Klaiber and Harold Sexton would tell.  But for some reason we never got around to the Estep stone.  Once I realized that time was running out, I left a notebook,  carefully labeled, “Klaiber Cemetery” for John Henry to make some notes or stories about various graves.  Sadly after his death I found the notebook, as blank as when I gave it to him, tucked under the jar marked Cemetery with less than $40.00[i]. 

As a researcher, I knew that descendants of Shadrack Estep lived in our neck of the woods[ii].  Actually you did not need to be a sleuth to grasp that family did live in our area of the county, since the Hack Estep Boys Home was on the next road[iii], while we were growing up.

Sometimes, researchers just stumble on their lightbulb moments when looking for something else.  I can’t resist scanning the newspapers while reviewing them on microfilm or digitally.  Thus an article titled “Ben Estep Dies at Logan, W.VA.” in the Ashland Daily put a pause on my actual search. The final paragraph  reads: “Funeral service will be conducted at the grave at Sexton cemetery ON GARNER…[iv]

Most burials in Sexton Cemetery on Pigeon Roost Road will say “on Pigeon Roost” while burials in what is today called Klaiber Cemetery would be “on Garner” due to the creek location.  Thus, after process of elimination of other cemeteries on Big Garner, I deduced that the marker in Klaiber Cemetery is in connection to Ben buried on Garner.



 

Benjamin Franklin Estep was born 11 July 1880 in Boyd County, Kentucky and grew up just over the county line on the East Fork in Lawrence County.    He was the son of William Harrison Estep[v].  The sibling closest to him in age was named Shadrack, for their grandfather Shadrack born in 1820.

As an adult Benjamin  moved in with his brother Shade and family, first working at a livery stable in Ashland, Kentucky[vi].   As many young folks did when Ben married they went across the river to Lawrence County, Ohio.  Benjamin Estep married Lillie Belcher 27 March 1915 in Lawrence County, Ohio.[vii]  He gave his parents as Harrison Estep and mother Jennie Hogan[viii] [ix].  Lillie was born in Lawrence County, Kentucky, the daughter of Isaac Alonzo Belcher and Samantha Helen Leslie[x].   Ben gave his occupation as a transfer manager at that time.

As the family grew, Ben worked in the steel mill and rented.  By 1920 they were residing on Hoods Creek Pike and had three children.  Benjamin Franklin Estep died in Logan County, West Virginia 3 October 1927.Neither the death certificate nor the Ashland Obituary give the reason he is in Logan County.  The death certificate simply says place of burial Ashland, Kentucky[xi].

Lillie Belcher Estep resided in Huntington, Cabell County, Kentucky after Benjamin died.   In 1930 she was a packer in a bottle company. By 1940 she had remarried to Thomas Smith, Jr.  Thomas was a fireman for a railway company and Lillie is listed in the 1940 census as still working as a packer in a glass factory.  Thomas Smith Jr. died in June 1950 and was buried in Spring Hill Cemetery, Huntington, Cabell County, Kentucky.  Lillie died 30 July 1962 in Lawrence County, Ohio[xii]. She was laid to rest beside her second husband in Huntington.

As a compiler, I would enjoy communicating with any researcher that can shed further light on Benjamin or the graves in Klaiber Cemetery

 

 

 



[i] Proudly there is now a cemetery fund at Kentucky Farmers Bank that anyone can donate for care of the cemetery and road to the cemetery.  To all that donate and care we thank you.

[ii] 1870 Federal Census, Boyd County, KY   living next door to John Andrew Klaiber and family…John Andrew Klaiber and family are buried in adjoin lots to the simple Estep stone

[iii] Pigeon Roost Road, Boyd County, KY

[iv] Ashland Daily Independent, 4 Oct 1927

[v] According to Wm Harrison Estep when he m in 1907 Mary E Wilson in Law Co KY it was his third marriage

[vi] KY, Boyd, Ashland, Federal Census 1910

[vii] OH, Law m bk 25 p 62

[viii] Benjamin is in the home of Harrison Estep and wife Jane as a son, in 1900.  Harrison married 30 April 1870 in Boyd County to Jane  Gillespie.  Jane died in 1904. 

[ix] KY Vital d cert of sister Lora Estep Thomas 1928 also states mother is Jane Hogan born KY as well as d cert of sister Ida May Estep Kirk in 1942 & brother John R Estep who d in 1924 

[x] Lesley, Leslie: Wm Robert Lesley & Elizabeth Buchanan Lesley…a history of two hundred years in America 1755-1955 p 118

[xi] WV Vital 11508, Logan Co.

[xii] Oh D Index